One of the things we notice when coming "home" to America are the flags. Of course, arriving between Memorial Day and The 4th of July, there are extra flags waving to greet us. I love the picturesque Americana that beckons us from banner-adorned front porches escorting us to the fun, holiday vive that summer in the States can bring. 

Another thing that surprises us each time we return is how friendly complete strangers are. It catches us off guard every time. This time a 30 second escalator ride brought teasing and laughter from a joking, full-bodied, big-voiced grandpa. And within a 5 minute shuttle ride, we heard a mired of details of a fellow passenger's recent move, life with their dogs and even how much sleep they didn't get the night before. 

This would not be the case in Japan where everyone is more quiet and reserved, especially to those you don't know. And being able to strike up a conversation with anyone, anywhere is a rare blessing. 

We have heard that Westerners have a thin outer shell, they are friendly and welcoming, but it can be superficial and getting deeper is difficult when you hit the thick, inner shell.  Japanese would be the opposite. They usually have a harder, outer shell that is difficult to penetrate making it difficult to make friends and get to know people. But once you get "in" to the inner circle, the level of friendship can be deep with a loyalty that lasts a lifetime.